Chapter 5

Posted by: ryan on 9 October 2007

Wow, it’s been a while, hasn’t it? I’m not even apologizing this time. I am going to try to post more, which should be a little easier because things are about to change drastically for The Rileys… We’re moving into the next chapter (remember, I promised this back in April) and it’s going to be a big one. Long story short, we’re packing things up and moving back up to Northwest Arkansas to be close to family and in an attempt to enjoy life at a little slower pace than living in Dallas allows. We’ve really missed the area since we moved away 7 and a half years ago (wow) and always toyed with the idea of moving back eventually. After Madi was born, it became pretty clear that she needed to grow up near her extended family (and we need babysitters!), but it was always a question of when. This past year a lot of things have fallen into place and really shown us that now was the time and this is what we are supposed to do. Here are some examples…

As I wrote about earlier, we put our house on the market back last Spring, thinking it’d take a while to sell and that after it sold, we’d weigh our options and see what we ended up doing. Well, the house sold in one day. Talk about a sign. The last time we drove through the old neighborhood, there were houses still for sale that were on the market before ours…

As another sign, the way it ended up working out, my company is going to let me take a step down from management and keep working as just a regular old senior web developer and work remotely, out of my home office.

There are several other signs, but the most recent one is that Rebecca really just started looking for a new job up there this past weekend and, as of this afternoon, she is already employed. She’d said that she wanted to find a job doing exactly what she is doing down here, with the same flexible hours and everything and what she got was exactly that. She was offered a job with a small (compared to her current firm) public accounting firm that really seems to have some good things going on and she’s very excited about it.

The downside? We can’t move until Thanksgiving. There are a couple of little loose ends we’ve got to tie up here, but we’ve got the move tentatively scheduled for the weekend before Thanksgiving. We’ve found, put an offer on and closed on a brand new house (the way that worked out was yet another sign) and it’s sitting up there just waiting on us to fill it up. Based on the couple of trips we’ve recently made down to the Pottery Barn Outlet, which Rebecca discovered was fairly close to Dallas, we won’t have any problem filling the new house up…

So, stay tuned, if anyone is still reading this, of course. We’ve got a busy next month or so, but life should hopefully slow down quite a bit and there will be more time for keeping this updated. As always, the photos over on Flickr have been updated somewhat regularly, at least more often than this site has been, so you can catch up with what’s been going on over there…

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Chapter 4

Posted by: ryan on 1 April 2007

I’ve had more than a couple of people ask recently if our sudden (and I do mean sudden) house sale and subsequent move was a “good thing” or not. The answer to that is a resounding, “yes.” We’ve been planning to sell our house for some time now and, while we expected it to take longer than 17 hours and it was more than a little sad to leave our first house for the last time on Friday, it’s exactly what we wanted to do. Closing on the house Friday was the end of Chapter 3 in our lives. “What were the other chapters?” you ask?

Chapter 1 began when Rebecca and I got married in 1999. It was a short chapter, lasting just a few months and ending in a cliffhanger with us moving away to the big city of Dallas. Chapter 2 began with the move to Dallas and then eventually with us going to the REALLY big cities of New York City and San Francisco, then settling back in the regular big city of Dallas, ending with the purchase of our first house.

The first 2 chapters were nothing to sneeze at, but Chapter 3 is going to be hard to beat. Chapter 3 was a big one. It was the one that sets the tone for the rest of the book. The chapter began with us purchasing our first house, moving in on a Thanksgiving morning, eating Thanksgiving lunch at a McDonald’s inside a Wal-Mart SuperCenter while everyone else was having turkey and all the fixings. It then progressed to Rebecca graduating from college and then getting the job she really wanted. Then, things got interesting. Along came Madi and the book began to go in a much different direction (and a much better one) than we’d been thinking it would. It’s amazing how much those little tricycle motors can change things up in ways you never thought they might.

So ends Chapter 3. It’s definitely going to be hard to beat that one, but just think, if such an early chapter was THAT exciting, imagine what’s in store for the rest of the book! Chapter 4 will be a short but exciting chapter. After being back in an apartment for just a few days, it’s already plainly obvious that it will be full of prime story-telling opportunities. Like the one about the 3 police cars at our building the night we moved in, arresting 2 kids for growing pot in their apartment. Or maybe the one about the people who live above us who are apparently raising a small herd of horses that like to stomp around all hours of the night, just to see how much they can make our lights shake.

The move is over and we’re almost unpacked, which was certainly interesting with Madi “helping” out. Thank goodness for daycare and for the visit from her Mimi and Papaw, or we’d still be moving and the buyers of our house would be homeless, but getting rich with the ridiculous rent we’d have to pay them if we weren’t out by yesterday! Now that things should be settling down a bit, we’ll quickly get back to the things that any of you seem to really care about anyway, Madi photos…

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What a Week!

Posted by: ryan on 3 March 2007

House for SaleI’ve been trying to get a chance this past week to make a post here, but things have been moving so fast that we hardly had time to even take a breath, let alone post on this website! Now that it’s the weekend and things have slowed down (a little), let me fill you in on things…

The week began with our house going on the market officially. They came out, took pictures, put signs up and everything on Monday. The house hit the MLS on Tuesday. Our Realtor uses a nifty new showing service that makes all showing appointments, gathers feedback and manages that whole process. Much to our surprise, given the state of the Dallas real-estate market, we got our first call from the showing service that very same day (Tuesday). Another Realtor had clients who wanted to see our house the next morning.

Wednesday morning came and went. The house was left with all the lights on (against every fiber in my being), Lily was tucked away safely in her crate (or her ‘box’, as Madi says) and the lockbox was on the door. Later that afternoon, we got a call from our Realtor telling us that we had an offer already. We were a little taken aback, given the fact that the average time on market for a house in this area right now is around 75 days. The offer was a good one and after a couple of days of paperwork, the contract was signed on Friday.

So, in the course of one week, our house has been listed, shown, and put under contract. We’re supposed to close in less than a month (wow), so we’re going to be scrambling to find another place to rent for a while and get packed, all the while leaving the house in great condition since it will still be being shown (twice this weekend). Keep your fingers and toes crossed for us that it all works out!

Madi and I were in the front yard today and got to meet the buyers, since they were driving by and having a look at it again. They seem to be a very nice family and it makes Rebecca and I feel better knowing that this house, that we’ve put so much into over the past few years, is going to continue to be taken care of and loved by another family. The house has served us well, and we’re already getting a little sentimental about leaving it (thanks, in part, to Madi’s newfound love of taking me out to the deck to sit with her and feed the ducks), but it’s time for us to move along…

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Melmo

Posted by: ryan on 13 February 2007

Just this week, Madi’s begun to start piecing together a couple of words into phrases. She’s got quite the little vocabulary already and knows lots of single words (including some that she shouldn’t, sorry about that). For example, the other day she stood up and started saying “I’m Madi!” followed by “I’m Me!” Another favorite is “Hi Baby” or “Bye Baby”. But, none of them have been used nearly as much as her very favorite phrase. That phrase would be “Nyuh….Melmo?” “Nyuh” would be the equivalent of “more”, which she confirms using her sign language and do I really have to explain what “Melmo” is? She knows that we use the DVR to record Sesame Street every day, so every time we pull up the list of recordings, she associates that with getting to watch Sesame Street. When it starts, she talks about Big Bird for a minute and then quickly asks us to fast forward to Melmo (which is always the last 15 minutes or so) by saying, “Nyuh…Melmo?”

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Playing a Dora game at the Apple Store, only because they didn’t have a Melmo game.

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Who Does Number Two Work For?

Posted by: ryan on 2 February 2007

Madi, that’s who! Yes folks, we’ve entered the potty training phase of early childhood development with Madi and, knock on wood, it’s starting out pretty well! We’ve been working on it for a few weeks now and we’ve had several successful attempts already. They’ve had a couple of them at school, too! The only bad thing is that she’s learned that if she says ‘poopy!’ and takes off running for her bathroom, she gets to climb up there and read. She’s got a stack of books in there already. She gets that from me.

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